I experienced a similar trouble with my boyfriend. We chatted about they and he is truly not the interacting type and i like to talk for hours on end if someone else allow me to. The guy make the efforts while i advised him to, however, for example Jane said it just endured a long time in advance of he returned, you cannot changes anyone.
He did tell me even if, so it does not bother him to acquire sms from myself, he enjoys searching all of them, they are simply not great at replying. Maybe...